Emphaty & Diversity - How can we connect to each other again? (HWPL)
Welcome Future Traveler followers, my dearest charms, I'm back again in English language. Because of course I missed you so much, foreign friends, also because I'm starting a new project, what I mentioned before and I work together a global assosiation on the peace buliding area on the communication field. So, this article will be useful to have some progress or how to cooperating with each other all over the world.
Emphaty, is an intresting psychological feature or expression and not many people have it. When I had to analized myself, why I am so different and hit the suffering, also when somebody hurted others from the distance I understood, how rarely is this phenomenon to have mentaly and spiritual connection with strangers and closer friends too and these things affected my feelings and my acts in a very special level. When I got to know the truth and other people traumas, I felt resposibility, because I would have helped her in the critical time to get over the shock or I would have helped her to defended herself or fought. This was brutal and I did not know, how to continue my life, I worried our friendships, because I had to developed the things and my traumas, but I didn't want to make deeper her trauma. Then I understood, the human connections or something like that, but I had to understood the reason, why happened with me. I had to investigate myself with psychological tests more times and in more types. And then I understood, why am I so different in the global population of 0,5% - because I'm INTJ
Introvert, Intuitive, Thinking, Judging person
And this personality type not just deep feeler, also deep thinker. An old soul, who connect to the people and have strong intuation, how they feel and what will he or she doing in the future. So, the emphaty depend to your personality and how to treat with the people. Strangers or not it is not depend from that. That's why we really have to understand, that the religions could be obstacles in to being emphaty with each other.
Those countries, who's citizets suffered a lot from wars in the history, they want peace, whatever what will be price and it could be the freedom too. Like in the V for Vendetta movie (2005). Actually, that's why I mentioned, that someone is taking in, helping and cooperation is depending from his or her psychological condition. And because of unprocessed social and historical traumas, most of them fear of the different, strangers, who has to move and escape. And politicians and leaders, such as Putin or my Prime Minister he is using the historical traumas to reach their aims using their fears to not see the refugees to people, because we all belongs to one race exactly and they don't want to accept.
In Germany for example, because the germans processed their historial sins, or traumas, they are more acceptable with others and the catholic church are working on to change the church some point, because the followers will disapeare, if they not care with them, that connected to human rights and equality, which is extremly important in nowadays. These points : Accepting woman popes, Abolishing the sexual harrasments and phedophile cases once and for all, Accepting LGBTQ members in the church community.
So, this is not a lost battle, in the religious fields, but the islamic religious territories there are huge undevelopment in gender equality and don't respect women rights. Child marriages high rate, In India the sexual violance is brutal growing. Globaly that's a very big problem and the wars spread the unlimited violance against the innocents, in my neighbouring Ukraine I am an eye of a victim of that today.
That's the reason, why we have to separate the aims from the cultural-religious-political system. And we have to accept the locals post traumatic behaviours, and need to help them to win the fight against the manipulations and leaders, who use them their fears. When, we will be able to finaly realise to they created monstaires from ourself to hate for nothing, we could reach the emphaty, which is actually not a human feature.
We have to understand, that those different people like me, have a reason to teach the meaing of the global unity, equality, cooperations. I'm a member of indigo, possible hybrid person, because of my personality, conditions, decisions what I made, the way, that I've choosen. To ignore the religions, because that gave me the watching to see the "big picture" of our system and I didn't give me suspend above my guilt, like christians see that, Jesus had done, and you can do everything without consequences. To understood the balance is everything with the nature and I don't accept the violance and hate, I don't live with those feelings and my past enemies I've never hated them too actually. I've forgiven to them and I got the present to know, what will happen soon, when you will have to choose side. This is not a threatment, but a promise, because the collaption of the civilisation is on the way now, the humans building the way to the wars too.
I want to help you, I really want you to feel, what I actually feel, why we need to connect each other, but we really have to see, that from the psychological side, where the people make the decisions to heal or hurt the others. We have to face with their pains and fears look in themselfs and actually, where they live now, but also in the past too and the futural ones , what kind of system, democratic or dictatorial. Personal inner conflicts have they can feel their indentity or not? That possible cause serious damages in anxiety. I am not psychologist, however I know this is how to work the humans, how the fear cause terrible consequences and make horrible decisions too.
Finally, if we realise in time, that we have responsibility for each other how to treat with each other, because the pain shows it and feel over their traumas. We can create power and using tool to understand, that the diversity make us stronger and the emphaty is the key to not lost the control in the time of crisis, when everything it will be upside down.
